Palmer v. Palmer
Palmer v. Palmer
545 N.W.2d 751
Neb.,1996.
April 12, 1996.
Mother filed petition for marital dissolution. The District
Court, Sarpy County, George A. Thompson, J., dissolved marriage and awarded
custody of child to mother, but placed restrictions on mother's ability to
involve child in her religious beliefs and activities. Mother appealed. After
removing appeal from Court of Appeals, the Supreme Court, Gerrard, J., held that
limiting custodial mother's right to control religious upbringing of her minor
child by preventing mother from including child in her door-to-door ministry and
preventing her from taking child to regular adult religious services until child
reached age seven constituted abuse of discretion.
Affirmed as modified.
**753 Syllabus by the Court
*814 1. Child Custody: Visitation: Appeal and Error. Child custody
determinations, and visitation determinations, are matters initially entrusted
to the discretion of the trial judge, and although reviewed de novo on the
record, the trial court's determination will normally be affirmed absent an
abuse of discretion.
2. Constitutional Law: Parental Rights: Courts. While a court has a duty to
consider whether the religious beliefs of a parent threaten a child's best
interests, a court may not restrict a parent's fundamental right to control the
religious upbringing of a child absent a showing that particular religious
practices pose an immediate and substantial threat to a child's temporal well-
being.
3. Constitutional Law: Parental Rights. A state cannot interfere with a parent's
liberty interest to direct the upbringing of the parent's child or children,
including educational and religious instruction, in the absence of jeopardy to
the child's health, safety, or significant social concerns.
Appeal from the District Court for Sarpy County: George A. Thompson, Judge.
John J. Respeliers and Thomas K. Harmon, Omaha, of Respeliers and Harmon, P.C.,
and Gregory D. Olds, Brooklyn, NY, for appellant.
No appearance for appellee.
Carolyn R. Wah, Brooklyn, NY, for amicus curiae Watchtower Bible & Tract Society
of New York, Inc.
GERRARD, Justice.
This is an appeal from the district court for Sarpy County, which dissolved the
marriage of petitioner-appellant mother, Teresa K. Palmer, and respondent-
appellee father, Gary R. Palmer, and awarded custody of the parties' minor
daughter, Chelsie, to the mother, but placed restrictions on the mother's
ability to involve the child in her religious beliefs and activities. The mother
appealed to the Nebraska Court of Appeals, claiming that the district court
erred in entering a decree restricting her right to direct the religious
instruction of her daughter absent a clear and affirmative showing that the
child's exposure to the mother's religious beliefs and practices poses an *815
immediate and substantial threat of harm to the child. We, on our own motion, in
order to regulate the caseloads of the two courts, removed the appeal to this
court. We now affirm but modify a portion of the decree in order to eliminate
certain restrictions placed on the mother, that impermissibly violate the Free
Exercise Clause found in the First Amendment to the U.S. Constitution and
article I, § 4, of the Nebraska Constitution.
FACTUAL BACKGROUND
The mother began studying to be a Jehovah's Witness in 1981 and was baptized in
July 1984. The parties married on October 29, 1982, and their daughter, Chelsie,
was born on September 8, 1990. In April 1993, the mother filed a petition for
dissolution, and both parties prayed for custody of the minor child, who at the
time of the dissolution proceedings was 3 1/2 years old. A trial was held in the
district court for Sarpy County. At trial, the mother testified that as part of
her religious activities, she attends a total of 5 hours per week of church
services, consisting of a 1-hour-45-minute time period each Sunday, a 2-hour
meeting **754 on Tuesday evening, and a 1-hour meeting on Thursday evening. The
mother also testified that every other Sunday, approximately two Sundays a
month, she participates in a 1-hour door- to-door visitation ministry in which
she visits people at their homes, distributes literature, and discusses her
faith with willing participants. The mother testified that if awarded custody,
she would bring Chelsie with her during these activities. Jehovah's Witnesses do
not have separate church services for children, and the mother testified that
during church services, she brings toys and activity books for her daughter to
play with. The father testified that he attends a Catholic church in Papillion,
Nebraska, and had taken Chelsie to church with him approximately six times in
the few months leading up to the trial. The mother did not object to the father
including the child in his religious activities or to the father having the
power to authorize a blood transfusion for the child in emergency situations.
Two psychologists and the guardian ad litem testified at trial, but a large
majority of the testimony centered on custodial *816 issues not raised in this
appeal. The mother testified that the father did not want Chelsie raised as a
Jehovah's Witness, but there was very little testimony regarding the effect of
the mother's religious activities and practices on the child. The guardian ad
litem testified that she did not think it was appropriate for the mother to take
the child on door-to-door calls because "its' boring" and the "weather can
either be hot or cold," and recommended that the mother be refrained from taking
Chelsie on these calls until Chelsie was approximately 10 years old. In regard
to the weekly services, the guardian ad litem stated: Chelsie is required to sit
in church with her mother for a two and three-hour period of time for the
services. I never could have kept my kids quiet or been able to enjoy the
service myself had I had them with me for that long a period of time. I think
that's too long for youngsters. They don't understand those sermons, they're way
over their head.
And later, referring to the weekly services, the guardian ad litem testified, "I
think that's too much religion for a three-year or four-year-old or a five-
year-old."
The district court ruled that the best interests of Chelsie were that she be
placed in the custody of the mother. The father was granted visitation on
Tuesday and Thursday evenings, every other Sunday all day, and every Sunday in
the afternoon. However, based on the above testimony, the district court placed
the following restrictions on custody and visitation in paragraph 7 of the
decree:
(c) Petitioner shall not take the minor child with her on door-to-door
visitation until the minor child reaches age seven;
(d) Neither party shall require the minor child to sit in a regular church
service until age seven, however, said child may attend religious education for
children age-appropriate.
The mother challenges these restrictions.
*817 STANDARD OF REVIEW
[1] Child custody determinations are matters initially entrusted to the
discretion of the trial court, and although this court reviews these cases de
novo on the record, the trial court's determination will normally be affirmed in
the absence of an abuse of discretion. Sullivan v. Sullivan, 249 Neb. 573, 544
N.W.2d 354 (1996); Smith-Helstrom v. Yonker, 249 Neb. 449, 544 N.W.2d 93 (1996).
The same standard of review applies to visitation determinations by the trial
court. Evenson v. Evenson, 248 Neb. 719, 538 N.W.2d 746 (1995)
ANALYSIS
[2] The First Amendment to the U.S. Constitution provides that "Congress shall
make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free
exercise thereof...." This prohibition applies to states by virtue of the 14th
Amendment to the U.S. Constitution and to judicial as well as legislative
functions. N.A.A.C.P. v. Alabama, 357 U.S. 449, 78 S.Ct. 1163, 2 L.Ed.2d 1488
(1958); Shelley v. Kraemer, 334 U.S. 1, 68 S.Ct. 836, 92 L.Ed. 1161 (1948);
Cantwell v. Connecticut, 310 U.S. 296, 60 S.Ct. 900, 84 L.Ed. 1213 (1940). See,
also, LeDoux v. LeDoux, 234 Neb. 479, 452 N.W.2d 1 (1990). **755 Similarly, the
Nebraska Constitution also protects religious freedom and prohibits interference
therewith. Neb. Const. art. I, § 4. In the present case, the state is acting
through the trial judge; thus, the actions of the trial judge qualify as
governmental action governed by the Free Exercise Clause.
[3][4][5] In order to invoke the Free Exercise Clause, the claimant must show
that his or her sincerely held religious practices are burdened by the
governmental action. Thomas v. Review Bd., Ind. Empl. Sec. Div., 450 U.S. 707,
101 S.Ct. 1425, 67 L.Ed.2d 624 (1981). A burden upon religion exists where the
state, or agent thereof, "conditions receipt of an important benefit upon
conduct proscribed by a religious faith, or where it denies such a benefit
because of conduct mandated by religious belief, thereby putting substantial
pressure on an adherent to modify his behavior and to violate his beliefs...."
450 U.S. at 717-18, 101 S.Ct. at 1432. There is no question that the religious
beliefs of the *818 mother are sincerely held. Further, it is clear that the
beliefs and practices of the mother are burdened in the sense that an important
benefit, full custody and parental training of her child, is limited by
restrictions on her ability to include Chelsie in her religious practices, i.e.,
the custodial mother is prevented from including Chelsie in her door-to-door
ministry, and she is prevented from taking Chelsie to regular adult religious
services until the child reaches age 7. Thus, the Free Exercise Clause is
clearly invoked in this case.
[6][7] The inquiry does not end here, however, as a state may abridge religious
practices upon a demonstration that some compelling state interest outweighs a
complainant's interests in religious freedom. LeDoux v. LeDoux, supra (citing
Sherbert v. Verner, 374 U.S. 398, 83 S.Ct. 1790, 10 L.Ed.2d 965 (1963). See,
also, 42 U.S.C. § 2000bb (1994) (Religious Freedom Restoration Act restoring
compelling state interest test after Employment Div., Ore. Dept. of Human Res.
v. Smith, 494 U.S. 872, 110 S.Ct. 1595, 108 L.Ed.2d 876 (1990)). In the present
case, the state interest implicated by the order of the district court was
protection of the best interests of the child. This court has previously held
that while a court has a duty to consider whether the religious beliefs of a
parent threaten a child's best interests, a court may not restrict a parent's
fundamental right to control the religious upbringing of a child absent a
showing that particular religious practices " 'pose an immediate and substantial
threat to a child's temporal well-being.' " Peterson v. Peterson, 239 Neb. 113,
126, 474 N.W.2d 862, 871 (1991); LeDoux v. LeDoux, supra. See, also, Von Tersch
v. Von Tersch, 235 Neb. 263, 455 N.W.2d 130 (1990).
In Von Tersch v. Von Tersch, supra, this court reviewed a divorce decree in
which the district court ordered that the custodial parent remove the minor
children from a Christian school and place the children in a public school. The
Christian school was exempt from state accreditation standards and not all of
the teachers at the school were state certified.
[8] In support of the proposition that the trial judge did not abuse his
discretion in ordering the placement of the children in a public school, the
noncustodial parent presented the trial *819 testimony of a psychologist who
performed a custody evaluation. The psychologist testified that the lack of
supplemental courses and strong emphasis on basics at the Christian school "
'generates a sense of awkwardness and potential vulnerability for the children.'
" Id. at 267, 455 N.W.2d at 133. This court concluded that given the fact that
the noncustodial parent's objections to the Christian school were not
religiously based, but, rather, were based on the adequacy of the education
provided, the primary issue in Von Tersch concerned a custodial parent's right
to control the education of a child. However, in reviewing the decision of the
trial judge, we stated in Von Tersch that "a state cannot interfere with a
parent's liberty interest to direct the upbringing of the parent's child or
children, including educational and religious instruction, in the absence of
jeopardy to the child's health, safety, or significant social concerns." Id. at
269, 455 N.W.2d at 134. This court also reaffirmed the proposition that a
custodial parent in a marital dissolution proceeding "normally has the right to
control the **756 religious training of a child legally affected by the
proceeding unless there is a demonstrated serious threat to the health or
well-being of the child." Id. at 272, 455 N.W.2d at 136.
In Von Tersch, we found that neither the testimony of the psychologist nor any
other evidence in the record demonstrated that the Christian school presented
any harm to the children's physical or mental health or well-being. We,
therefore, held in Von Tersch that the trial judge abused his discretion in
ordering that the children be removed from the Christian school and placed in a
public school.
[9] Similar to Von Tersch v. Von Tersch, supra, in this case, there exists
insufficient evidence that attendance at the church services poses an immediate
and substantial threat to the mental or physical health or well-being of the
child. The only testimony which supports the restrictions imposed by the
district judge is the testimony of the guardian ad litem as to her opinion that
the child would be bored and unruly during extended religious services. Even
accepting that testimony at face value, the child has visitation with her father
during 3 hours of church services on Tuesday and Thursday evenings, and every
other *820 Sunday all day. There is no evidence in the record that the child was
manifestly fearful of either parent or was suffering from any tangible mental
stress from attending the Jehovah's Witnesses services or participating in the
door-to-door ministry. There is no evidence or even allegation of a threat of
physical harm to the child caused by such activities. In fact, the mother
testified that attendance and participation in the religious activities of both
parents would be healthy for Chelsie and provide a basis for the child to
determine which religion she would prefer when she reaches a sufficient age of
understanding.
By all indications of the psychologists' evaluations, Chelsie is a happy,
well-adjusted child. There has been no showing that the compelling end of the
best interests of the child would be served by the restrictions imposed in this
case. We, therefore, hold that the district court abused its discretion in
placing limitations on the custodial mother's right to control the religious
upbringing of her minor child in violation of the Free Exercise Clause found in
the First Amendment to the U.S. Constitution and article I, § 4, of the Nebraska
Constitution. The following restrictions are ordered to be stricken from
paragraph 7 of the decree of dissolution:
(c) Petitioner shall not take the minor child with her on door-to-door
visitation until the minor child reaches age seven;
(d) Neither party shall require the minor child to sit in a regular church
service until age seven, however, said child may attend religious education for
children age-appropriate.
JUDGMENT
Accordingly, paragraph 7 of the decree of dissolution is modified as set forth
above, and the remainder of the decree is affirmed in all other respects.
AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED.
FAHRNBRUCH, J., concurs.
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